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Self-Regulation: A personal story

The Impact of Stress Recently, I felt overwhelmed by a task I was about to undertake.  I could feel the signs of stress in my body: shallow breathing, increased heart rate, tightness in my belly and more.  Since I was home at the time, I was able to tap into some built in resources I …

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No Tears

These past four weeks, I have not cried.  Haven’t shed a single tear.   Not when presented with missed opportunities, lost experiences (and financial reimbursements), and the monotonous daily grind.  Not when discovering that the worst was yet to come.  Not when reading heart-breaking accounts and watching soul-ripping moments.  Not even when I could not see …

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On Comparison and Discernment

This time of the year, with winter’s melt and spring’s thaw, one has to watch where one steps. The ground is soft, mushy and squalid. Although tempting to wear that bright, new pair of sneakers you ordered off the clearance rack on The Shoe Company website (that cute and airy, light-blue pair of Adidas that …

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Good News

“Everyone has inside them a piece of good news. The good news is you don’t know how great you can be! How much you can love! What you can accomplish! And what your potential is.” – Anne Frank   Can you imagine writing this piece of literary goodness, this lovely gem of hopeful kindness, while …

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September days/ March craze

When September days arrived this past school year, I again faced the reality that I was staring down the homestretch with my precious second oldest.  As when my very Oldest was in Grade 12, my only son, it was again, a bittersweet milestone to be reached.  I (as mama) was so proud and so grateful …

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Dear Students Everywhere…

Hello Friends, Over the past days, which now total near weeks (a week and a half, plus one weekend, to be exact), we have not been together. This has been hard. Really hard. And over these days and weeks, your teachers, and educational assistants, and custodial staff, and bus drivers, and resource teachers and support, …

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Comfort: I Find it in the Books

When I was nine years old, the bottom fell out of our family’s world with one, horrific phone call.   The call that changed everything—it came on a December day, just before Christmas.  I remember very little about the date—the common, everyday moments leading up to the call.  But I will forever have imprinted in my …

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Fighting the dark

Fighting the dark.  Filling the empty spaces.  Finding light. First, fighting the dark.  I felt a cloud of darkness pushing in around me.  Felt it for days.  Heavy, ominous: it started with the light-hearted feeling of having done something helpful and hopeful, but left me feeling pinched for air, as if being suddenly choked by …

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On Being Helpers…

“When I was a boy and I would see scary things in the news, my mother would say to me, ‘Look for the helpers. You will always find people who are helping.’ To this day, especially in times of ‘disaster,’ I remember my mother’s words and I am always comforted by realizing that there are …

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Connection

I look out the double windows this evening at sundown, while wiping down the kitchen counters from a late supper. Noticing Husband out by the road, talking to an unrecognizable couple and their dog, I am drawn to the over-sized glass on our entryway door. Pausing for a moment, I take stock. Who is this? …

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Small Moments

Sometimes in the scheme of life, it is hard to remember that our lives are filled with days and our days are filled with moments. Small moments, at that. Sometimes it is the smallest of moments that we overlook in our quest to conquer the larger ones. We forget what it was like to eat …

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On Pain

“Pain insists upon being attended to. God whispers to us in our pleasures, speaks in our consciences, but shouts in our pains. It is his megaphone to rouse a deaf world.” ― C.S. Lewis I notice lately more pain within the body. Aching pain in fingers as they type and play piano. Stabbing pain in …

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